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“Now That’s Interesting”
Ten years ago I was in my dorm bedroom, sitting on the bed, cross-legged, in the drug rehab center Hazelden, in the middle of f***ing...
Either Way It Will Be Ok
A very close friend of mine has cancer, and it is almost sure to end his life in the very near future. He lives in another city but was...
This Is Excellent News!
The title is a quote from the stunningly sensational book Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals by Oliver Burkeman. Mr....
The Chess Moves of the Resilience Game
One day my wife Lea Ann said to me “nothing ever stops you.” She clearly did not mean it as a compliment, but I took it as one of the...
Losing Touch With Touch.
The other day I was on a zoom call with the director of an organization that was considering hiring me to speak to their members about...
Thanksgiving Monkey Business
What a state of affairs - the impending cold winter, covid, computer hell, loneliness, unemployment - so many negative possibilities for...
Acceptance: The Miracle Drug for Suffering
"So remember this principle when something threatens to cause you pain: the thing itself was no misfortune at all; to endure it and...
Dopamine Projects To Weather the Dark Winter
The last 5 days in Minnesota have been very gray and cold. There was a winter snow storm that blanketed us with a 5 inch layer of white...
Begin Again
Two weeks ago our family drove up to northern Minnesota to attend a wedding of Kristina, a young woman who grew up in our neighborhood and...
How to Weather the Winter Weather Until the Covid Solstice in the Spring
As I was making coffee last Monday morning I absolutely could not remember if it was Sunday or Monday. I stood there watching the coffee...
A Formula to Help Clear Your Covid-19 Induced Miasma
I have skinny calves, sort of. Sort of because for the last two months I have been working my calves at the gym almost every day. So they...
One Thing To Do, Sometimes, When Things Are Tough
Last week my daughter Maya and I drove to NYC to move her out of her apartment. She moved to Manhattan over a year ago with the excitement...